Archive for October, 2011

Keep A Secret

Monday, October 31st, 2011

It’s that time again. The big “holiday” where young women pull out all the stops on the skimpiest costumes. Sad, huh? It kills me to even scroll through Facebook. Blek! Without being unkind, I wish I could say….Don’t do it! Be strong & confident in who you are, you don’t have to dress like that for attention. Really!

I can’t help but think it’s connected to lack of self-respect. Young women are falling for the lies that less is best and in the meantime….sharing way more than (their future husbands) would probably want them to. Letdown!

I have daughters. Beautiful ones, at that. I know how easy it is to dance right on the edge of too much (or too little). While I’m thankful for the moral boundaries that both my girls adhere to, I know that they’ve made some clothing errors (just like I have) along the way. It’s not always easy to dress totally goof free. Always learning!

One of the greatest lessons for me regarding WHAT NOT TO WEAR came by way of my (then) middle school son. He knocked on our bedroom door late one night needing to talk about a little problem. He shared with his dad and I about the temptations he felt at school because of the way his girl classmates were dressing. He felt a terrible pull to “look” and because of that, he took on a shameful guilt. He knew it was wrong….wrong to look and wrong to be dressing inappropriately. It broke my heart to hear of his struggle!

Girls, oftentimes have no idea the effect they are having on the guys around them. Some are clueless and other’s are flaunting it on purpose. When you think of the negative effect this phenom has on both the boy and the girl….how can you not feel sad?

Moms, we need to set the bar high.

It starts with us. Are we dressing age appropriately? Our girls are watching and believe it or not, so are our sons. Let’s help influence the next generation to dress in a way that empowers them, not degrades what will someday be someone’s wife or mother.

“Adorn yourself with majesty and dignity; clothe yourself with glory and splendor” (Job 40:10).

It’s Always Drama

Friday, October 28th, 2011

I live a life of entertainment. I jet-set around chasing my kids performances here and yonder. Well, I used to. Nowadays, I just chase around my baby Gates and to be honest…the kid is a hoot!

Remember a few weekends ago we were shivering our way around at the Ghost Walk. This weekend was the drama club’s fall Dessert Theatre. It’s a good time to have your regularly scheduled “dinner” and then go out for a show jazzed up with some yum-o desserts. Oh and coffee bar! Score!

The kids who perform at these events are incredibly talented. Mine included. She gets it honestly. Drama just comes…..naturally in my family. At any given moment you might find someone in character. Whether it be someone from a favorite tv show or imitating a real life friend. Acting crazy is what we do.

In Act III Gates plays the part of Shelly. She’s auditioning for a part in Anne of Green Gables….but as you will see, she’s a bit confused.

I know what you’re thinking, she’s wild.   I agree.  If you only knew how many “shows” I’ve watched with this kid.  She and her sister kept us occupied with fancy performances from the time they could walk.  Note to self:  Convert old videos STAT!

The world needs a little more drama. Don’t ya think?

Edge of Ick

Friday, October 28th, 2011

I have battled the biggest headache today. I really haven’t worked in that much brain pain ever. Before lunch, I seriously considered leaving school sick. The pain wasn’t particular to one spot either– my right eye throbbed, the whole back of my head felt tight and shooting pains stabbed my brain all day . So, I used every coping method I could think of.

Yes, I tried taking something. It didn’t touch it. I stretched my neck, and rolled my shoulders. I relaxed. I rubbed my face, neck, eyes and shoulders. I smiled and thought happy thoughts. Nothing helped! I stuck with it and suffered through to make it home to collapse.

I ended up having to run a few errands. Once I made it home and thought I could rest…the headache sort of took a backseat. I met up with a severe case of nausea and funky stomach rumbles. The kind that force you into a FREEZE position. Like, I COULD NOT MOVE AN INCH!! I was stuck! The head thing started making a little sense then.

DO I HAVE THE FUNK FLU?

Gates needed food brought to her at school. Real food. She hadn’t eaten all day and was about to go into hair/makeup for her show which started at 7pm. I quick like a bunny ran to the stove and threw in a stuffed chicken breast with some frozen fries. All the while NOT BREATHING in or out of my nose (hence the barfing any moment feeling). I wanted my mommy! That’s how awful I felt.

Now, I wait. I’m suspicious of my well-being. Am I coming down with something or am I just icky from something I’ve eaten? I’m a little nervous to close my eyes and sleep. Surely I’m not the only one to wake up in the wee hours very ill!!?!! Hello, not a pleasure.

I’ll let you know how it goes. Right now, those sharp stabbing pains that were all over my head–they’re now in my stomach area. I DON’T WANT TO BE THE SICK KID!! Dern it, it’s Friday!

Night Six

Thursday, October 27th, 2011

I’m really not one of those women. You know the ones. The nervous scaredy-cat kind that flip out staying by themselves? No, I’m not like that. I like alone time. I’m a “resty” kind of person. Naps, quiet house and chill time are all positives to me.

Don’t get me wrong. I love my hustle-bustle lifestyle too. My house is busy and full most of the time which probably explains why laying low is so appealing to me. I’m a chameleon. I adapt to whatever season I’m in.

Last night marked the 6th night of sleeping alone without my hubby snuggled close. I can’t complain (hello, military families?)! All I can do is tell you how strange it is for us to be apart this long. We just don’t do this. It’s weird for me to be on my own.

I’ve used my time wisely. My house is clean. The dog is washed smelly good. The meals have been easy (cooking for girls is a piece of cake) and tis the season for McRib deliciousness! So last night we ate like queens. Thank you McDonald’s! I feel guilty living so fancy! πŸ˜‰

Until bedtime.

Then I remember I’m still home alone without the man God gave me. I miss him, even his annoying stuff. I’ve grown accustomed to him being around and bossing me. Hehe! Ok, he tries to boss me. I boss back! Bedtime fills my mind with all the things I need him around to handle.

I have four more nights of listmaking to go. Honestly, I’ll be glad to see Halloween arrive. It’s not because I have a sweet costume to wear either. My hubby & son land SAFELY in Indy (back where they belong) and I will once again have a full nest.

Honey, if you’re reading. Don’t get weird and worry that you have to rush home. We’re fine. Enjoy this time with your family. Live on the edge in the Utopia that is called Wenatchee, WA. Spend some free time having fun with all that God is blessing you with right now. We’ll be back on the LIFE treadmill very soon. You deserve a good break! XO

Now you tell me….Do you like when your hubby travels or do you spend your time missing him?

Red Hot Wishes

Wednesday, October 26th, 2011

Remember my birthday wish? Yes, it came true! Guess who pretty much single-handedly ate this thing? Yes, it was ME!

On Thursday, I came home to a surprise birthday cake. Have I mentioned how fun it is having family visit? While you’re at work, fun stuff happens at your house. Like COOKED MEALS and birthday cakes! Hot dang! All things that make me giddy with happy!

Except. They all left and the cake stayed on my kitchen table. So, I did what any out-of-control hormonal woman would do…..I ate some of it, every meal!

Until yesterday. I couldn’t take it anymore! I threw it out. But my gratitude for the two sweet gals that made it for me–I held onto and hid in my heart forever.

Nana & Ally–
Thank you for making my birthday cake wishes come true. It’s not easy to make a Red Velvet Cake & DINNER! I loved it! You made my day with that sweet surprise.
I’m so blessed to be loved by both of you.
Love & kisses
XOXO

Glamorous Me

Tuesday, October 25th, 2011

In spite of what my son likes to tease about me, I love yardwork! Seriously, it’s very rewarding. That doesn’t mean I’m any good at it though. My yard is completely covered with giant trees. Which means, it’s very complicated to have a “pretty” yard. Flowers do not grow in shade, gardens do not thrive without constant sun and grass…..oh grass. GRASS NEEDS GOOD SOIL!!

Trees do not aid in good soil.

Trees cause problems. My trees are ooooold. They have been here so long that my yard is really their yard. The level of acid in my soil (or so I’m told) is such that grass just can’t grow like it should. I mostly have a yard made of moss. But it’s beautifully shady and people love it when they pull up and feel the cool breeze outside my house.

So, I’ve just learned to embrace what I’ve been given. I focus on my fish pond and whatever temporary plants I can stick out in pots for the limited sunshine that sneaks through the leaves each season. Except for right now. It’s fall in my neck of the woods and that means ONE THING!

L E A V E S !!!

Lots of leaves. So many leaves that when I let my little dog out to potty, she picks her feet up extra high as she walks out searching for a “safe” spot to do her business. Even she thinks, “these dudes are unruly”! πŸ˜‰

For the last 9 years or so, we’ve had the very same leaf blower. My hubby bought it as a gift for himself after we moved into this house and he realized the harsh reality of raking our large hilly yard. It’s heavy, gas-powered and dirty. Not only that but it’s hard to crank! Just before he left on his trip, he mentioned it’s time to start “shopping” for a replacement.

The wheels started turning (in my little mind) and I began to wish for a blower that I could handle [to help out]. Something easy to hold and with a button to turn it on (not a pull crank). I always help with the leaves anyway and the guys aren’t always around when my back porch is knee deep in leaves. Something small would be perfect for me to do my part. Right?

So, today I went shopping at Lowe’s. You’d of thought I was making a lifetime decision. I read every box. I picked each blower up and tried to pretend I was ON THE JOB clearing the whole yard. Ok, I judged them based completely on appearance. Kidding!

Who won the beauty best choice contest?

This guy!

Pretty nifty, eh? I love it! It blows like a tornado! I would have blown my whole yard but I was in my pj pants and didn’t want my neighbors to think I’d lost it. >>THEY DON’T KNOW ME<< It's perfect! {NOTE TO THE MEN IN MY FAMILY: PERFECT FOR ME!!}
You see, a few years back I purchased a lawnmower for myself. I searched and shopped the world over for one that could handle my rough yard terrain but didn’t need a lumberjack to crank it. I found just what the doctor ordered when I stumbled upon Husqvarna’s key crank self-propelled mows like the dickens mower. I love it too.

My son doesn’t believe me, since he’s had to push it more than me. πŸ˜‰ So Gavin….this is for you.

Dear Son,
I love my mower & my new blower. Don’t be fooled otherwise if your dad comes along and has you pitch-in around here by using either one. It’s just his way of saying–you are welcomed to live in our house and eat our food. Oh, and we love you! Teehee!
XO,
Mom <3 PS Just wait until I can get on the roof to clear limbs & such. My life is based on one glamorous moment after another. Happy Tuesday, friends.